Was It A Mistake To Never Marry Or Have Kids? Older Woman Shares Her Story.

As I grew older, I found myself more and more content with the life I had created for myself. I worked hard and achieved great success in my career, and I was able to travel to places I had always dreamed of visiting.

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I had close friends who shared my interests, and I was able to pursue my hobbies and passions without any interruption.

However, as time went on, I found that there were moments when I yearned for something more. I would see a happy family walking together in the park, or a couple holding hands on a street corner, and I couldn’t help but wonder if I was missing out on something important.

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One day, while browsing in a bookstore, I stumbled upon a quote by the writer Anais Nin: “I am an excitable person who only understands life lyrically, musically, in whom feelings are much stronger as reason.”


It struck a chord within me, and I realized that perhaps my own understanding of what constituted a “fulfilling life” was too narrow.

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I began to explore my emotions and feelings more deeply, and I found that there was a richness and complexity to my inner world that I had never fully appreciated before. I started writing poetry and songs, and I found that I had a talent for expressing my emotions in creative ways.

As I shared my art with others, I found that it resonated with many people, and I began to feel a sense of belonging and connection that I had never experienced before.

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I realized that there were many different ways to create a meaningful life, and that it was up to me to define what that looked like for myself.


Years went by, and I continued to live my life on my own terms. I watched as friends got married and had children, and I was happy for them, but I never felt any regret about my own choices. I knew that I had lived my life with integrity, and that was all that mattered.

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Eventually, as I reached my later years, I found myself surrounded by a community of friends and fellow artists who shared my values and passions.

I had created a life that was full of love and meaning, and I knew that I had lived a life that was true to myself.

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