A teacher with 16 years of experience has a message for parents who spoil their kids.

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Recently, Sweden native, Jonas Harrysson, wrote a very popular post on Facebook. As an educator with 16 years of experience, he shared his opinion about the problem of spoiling children.

His post received a lot or praise from parents but also a ton of criticism. As a result, the controversy sent his post into viralness. It started out in Sweden and made it all the way to the United States.

“I have worked with kids for almost 16 years and there are several things that I’ve noticed children getting worse and worse at.


..No.1. Children find it very difficult to be bored! There constantly needs to be something going on.

Please stop spoiling and servicing your children. It’s not dangerous for them to be bored sometimes.

..No 2. I’ve met many parents who are soooo proud that their kids can read and count before starting preschool.

Well, I hate to break it to you, but reading and counting, they’ll learn to do soon enough. Teach them instead to play, to be a good friend, and to share.

My third point is that many children find it difficult to show gratitude, both to other kids and towards adults. Can they get an ‘another one’ is unfortunately often a first question – and ‘we only get one!?’ is a common complaint I hear.

What happened to PLEASE!? And thanks for dinner, and thanks for the ride, and so on?


I have no children at the moment, but if I do sometime in the future I plan to teach them to play, to be good friends, to show gratitude and to be bored from time to time. Once they’ve learned those things, then I’ll teach them to read and count :)”

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