Nurse responds to a cashier who put her down for the way her hair looks.

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As Facebook user, Mary Walls Penney, waited at the checkout line of a grocery store, something unexpected happened. The cashier, who noticed that Penny was wearing scrubs, asked her “what do you do there?” Penny responded to her question by saying “I’m a nurse”.

After learning that piece of information, the cashier immediately started questioning Penny’s decision to have multicolored hair. “I’m surprised they let you work there like that. What do your patients think about your hair?” said the cashier. She even went on to say that she can’t believe a nursing facility would allow her to have such a color.

Feeling annoyed by the experience, Penny took to Facebook to share her thoughts. She wrote a response that’s so good it’s actually going viral. Check it out below.

“After work I went to the store to pick up a few things.

While checking out, the cashier, looked at my name tag and said, “So what do you do there?”

I replied, “I’m a nurse.”

She continued, “I’m surprised they let you work there like that. What do your patients think about your hair?”

She then proceeded to ask the elderly lady that was in line behind me, “What do you think about her hair?”


The kind older lady said, “Nothing against you honey, it’s just not for me.”

Then the cashier continued to comment that they didn’t allow that sort of thing even when she worked fast food and that she was shocked that a nursing facility would allow that.

Well, here’s my thoughts. I can’t recall a time that my hair color has prevented me from providing life saving treatment to one of my patients. My tattoos have never kept them from holding my hand and as they lay frightened and crying because Alzheimer’s has stolen their mind. My multiple ear piercings have never interfered with me hearing them reminisce about their better days or listening to them as they express their last wishes. My tongue piercing has never kept me from speaking words of encouragement to a newly diagnosed patient or from comforting a family that is grieving.

So, please explain to me how my appearance, while being paired with my cheerful disposition, servant’s heart, and smiling face, has made me unfit to provide nursing care and unable to do my job!”


As the old saying goes “never judge a book by it’s cover”.

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